Spiritual Coaching: Guiding You to God’s Direction
Framing verse: “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” (Psalm 119:105)
When Life Feels Spiritually Confusing
You long to follow God’s will. You pray, you read Scripture, you ask for wisdom—but sometimes, clarity feels just out of reach. Maybe your prayers echo back with silence. Maybe your decisions feel like forks in the road with no sign pointing the way. Or maybe your heart feels tired of guessing what God wants from you. If this is where you find yourself, you are not broken and you are not alone. Many of us walk through seasons of confusion, longing for the Shepherd’s voice but feeling surrounded by noise.
It is in these moments that spiritual coaching can become a gift. It is not a replacement for prayer or Scripture—it is a companion to them. Spiritual coaching is a safe space where you can name your struggles honestly, invite God into the middle of them, and receive gentle guidance to hear His voice more clearly. It is about walking with someone who helps you notice the Spirit’s movement in your story, so you can take the next faithful step.
What Is Spiritual Coaching?
Spiritual coaching is a collaborative partnership between you, your coach, and God. At Share the Struggle, our coaches create a prayerful, Scripture-centered environment where you can slow down, reflect, and discern God’s leading. It is not therapy, though it may feel deeply healing. It is not mentoring, though it often includes wisdom. Instead, it is a journey designed to draw you closer to God’s presence in the everyday moments of your life.
A Share the Struggle coach will help you:
Create a safe space where you are known and loved—both in your struggles and in your dreams.
Focus on the present: where you are, what God is stirring, and how to bridge the gap toward His direction.
Ask thoughtful questions that invite self-discovery and open your heart to God’s Spirit.
Identify lies and thought patterns that keep you stuck, replacing them with biblical truth.
Develop habits and rhythms that fit your season and keep you anchored in Christ.
Journey with you through prayer, Scripture, and the agency of the Holy Spirit, so you can move toward transformation.
In short, spiritual coaching is less about someone telling you what to do and more about helping you listen to the One who already knows the way.
Why We Need Spiritual Coaching in a Noisy World
We live in an age overflowing with voices—friends, podcasts, sermons, social media, and even our own inner critic. Good advice is everywhere, but discernment feels rare. Why? Because advice can point you in many directions. But God’s voice? It anchors you in the right one.
Spiritual coaching helps quiet the noise. In coaching sessions, you pause long enough to notice where God is already speaking in your real life—in the workplace decision, in the painful relationship, in the restless heart at 2 a.m. The goal is not just relief from stress, but transformation of perspective. Romans 12:2 reminds us, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind.” Coaching helps you practice that renewal week by week.
How Spiritual Coaching Differs From Counseling
One common question is, “Do I need counseling or coaching?” Both can be Spirit-led and both are valuable, but they serve different purposes:
Counseling helps you process pain from the past or untangle patterns of anxiety, trauma, or depression. It focuses on healing wounds that keep you from functioning fully.
Spiritual coaching looks forward. It helps you discern God’s leading in the present, take steps toward growth, and build rhythms of abiding that carry into the future.
Sometimes the best approach is both—counseling for healing, coaching for direction. And that is okay. God uses multiple avenues to draw us closer to Himself.
Stories of Transformation
Amy felt overwhelmed by choices. She had two job offers and no clarity. Coaching gave her space to name her fears, pray honestly, and ask a better question: “Where is God inviting me to trust Him?” By the third session, peace came—not just about the job, but about her confidence in God’s faithfulness.
Marcus felt spiritually dry. He was active in church, read his Bible daily, and still felt far from God. Coaching helped him notice how much of his faith had become performance. Through guided reflection and prayer, Marcus rediscovered the joy of abiding instead of striving.
Susan carried shame from her past. For years she believed God was disappointed in her. In coaching, she encountered again the truth of Romans 8:1: “There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” Her coach didn’t lecture—just gently pointed her back to grace. Over time, shame loosened its grip.
What to Expect in a Coaching Session
Every spiritual coaching session is rooted in prayer, listening, and Scripture. Sessions usually last 45–60 minutes and are completely confidential. Here’s what you can expect:
Gentle questions that draw out what God is stirring in you
A safe environment to be honest without judgment
Encouragement grounded in biblical truth
Practical rhythms you can carry into daily life
Prayer that frames the time and invites God’s Spirit to guide
Sometimes you leave a session with a clear next step. Sometimes you leave with renewed peace. Both outcomes are holy.
Common Questions About Coaching
Do I need to be in crisis to benefit?
No. Many people come to coaching not because life is falling apart but because they want clarity, growth, or deeper intimacy with God.
What if I feel too unworthy or messy?
Then you are in the right place. Jesus meets us in our weakness, not after we clean ourselves up. Coaching is a space to experience that grace.
Is this biblical?
Yes. Jesus often asked questions that led people to truth. Spiritual coaching follows His example: listening, reflecting, and pointing people back to God’s Word.
Can I combine coaching with counseling?
Absolutely. Coaching is not a replacement for therapy, but a complement to it. Many people find both valuable at different times.
A Prayer to Begin With
Father, I want to follow Your voice, but the noise is loud. Thank You that You are not distant. You speak through Your Word and Spirit. Jesus, remind me that You are gentle and lowly, not demanding. Holy Spirit, guide me into the next faithful step. Help me listen well and trust that You are already at work. Amen.
Conclusion: You Don’t Have to Walk Alone
Life can feel confusing, but you don’t have to figure it out on your own. Spiritual coaching offers a sacred space to listen, reflect, and respond to God’s direction. It is not about quick fixes. It is about slow transformation, anchored in the Word and led by the Spirit.
If your heart feels restless or your path feels unclear, this may be your next right step. Explore our coaching page to learn more, or start with one of our courses like Freedom From Anxiety or More Than Your Past. We would be honored to walk alongside you as you discover God’s direction for your life.
