Take Care of Your Congregation’s Mental and Emotional Health

1-on-1 support for your people, courses for healing in community, better training for your leaders.

TRUSTED BY

1-on-1 Coaching

Coaching to meet the one-on-one support needs of your people.

Small Group Courses

Courses on today’s most pressing topics, taught by experts, and led by your staff.

Training Videos

Training on topics of struggle to equip your staff and leaders.

ONE-ON-ONE COACHING

ONE-ON-ONE COACHING

  • Individual and group sessions with vetted, certified, Jesus-loving coaches. Our coaches are eager to meet weekly with anyone in your congregation to help them walk into greater freedom from their struggles.

  • We believe coaching is one of many tools God has provided for us to accomplish the mission of binding up the brokenhearted. There’s no adequate replacement for Christ’s model for the church to bring communities of people together. That’s why STS empowers the local church to walk with their congregation while offering 1-on-1 support.

  • Send your congregation this link. Here, they’ll give us the information we need to support them best. This includes pairing them with a coach who is trained in their specific area of need, determining session frequency, and creating a tailored plan that leads to greater health.

    *Reminder, we always encourage churches to prioritize building connections in church-supported small groups. We wholeheartedly believe this is the way to grow a healthy church and invite people into the journey of allowing God to transform their emotional and mental health.

  • At STS, we follow the Captive Thoughts Coaching model which has three elements (see below). We’ve found this model most effective in seeing people gain freedom in their lives. This coaching model is different from therapy, which seeks to process the past. Coaching stays in the present and future, providing tools, insights and actionable steps. Our coaches are friends for the journey who will pray, share their story and perspective, offer accountability and provide practical solutions for finding emotional and spiritual freedom.

Coaching for the Church

Share the Struggle offers Coaching Services to meet the one-on-one support needs of your people

What You Can Expect

  • 1. Prayer

    The first is Prayer.

    In every session, we want to invite the Holy Spirit to come and share whatever He wants with us. We practice listening and inner healing prayer, often accompanied by somatic breathing or scripture meditation to calm our nervous system and focus our attention on God, His Word, and His heart for us.

  • 2. Tea Time

    Secondly, we do what we call TEA time.

    This stands for Thoughts, Emotions, and Actions. We believe the Bible when it says repeatedly to take every thought captive and make it obedient to Christ. So, if we want to change the actions in our lives, it begins with changing our thinking, which in turn aligns our emotions with God’s Kingdom and the Fruits of the Spirit.

  • 3. Plan of Action

    The third and last element of a coaching session is creating a plan of action.

    Our goal is to create a new path forward, and although our past is important, with coaching, we make an effort to move beyond. Each week, your coach will give you practical and actionable steps to continue to grow in your goals, faith, and mental/emotional/physical health.

Coaching Pricing

We provide 1-on-1 weekly mental, emotional, and spiritual support regardless of financial means

Weekly Group sessions

Weekly One-on-One (25 min)

$40/mo

$180/mo

Weekly One-on-One (50 min)

$360/mo

Getting Started

*If you would like to subsidize and/or pay for the coaching of your congregation or bulk purchase, we offer special pricing. Contact us a team@sharethestruggle.org

Get someone in your congregation started today (just click this link, copy the URL, and share it with them)

SMALL GROUP COURSES

SMALL GROUP COURSES

Small Group Courses

Courses on today’s most pressing topics are taught by experts, and led by your staff.

  • Share the Struggle courses offer 6 to 8 week video courses on today’s most pressing topics like anxiety, trauma, grief, additction and relationships. Each course is lead by industry experts like Dr. Caroline Leaf, Matthias Barker, Rebecca Lyons (and many more), and are further supported by pastors and licensed therapists who offer well-rounded psychological and faith-based tools and resources. Courses include professional videos, workbooks that guide you though the videos and companion guides that create lasting change and grow community throughout the week.

  • Christ’s model of the local church bringing people together to walk through life’s challenges is irreplaceable — it’s Christ-centered community. With shifting budgets, fewer staff and a growing demand for your time, we know investing what it takes to meet the emotional and mental health needs of your congregation can feel impossible. That’s why we’re offering an all-in-one emotional and mental health resource that will not only meet the needs of your congregation but for you and your team, as well.

    It is Share the Struggle’s mission to walk alongside every church, with every budget, in every need so that people can experience the redemption and freedom that only comes from a relationship with Jesus.

  • FIND A CHAMPION - Find an in-house champion who will lead the way with your team and congregation. This isn’t as big of a responsibility as you may think — we’ve done the leg work by providing the communication templates, instructions and support needed to launch courses with ease. We even have an Integrations team waiting for you to answer any question and customize courses to the structure of your church or organization.

    RECRUIT TABLE LEADERS - We recommend one table leader for every 5-6 people enrolled in the course. This makes participants feel connected and well cared for. We’ll even take care of training your leaders for you by enrolling them in our Share the Struggle Certification Course — completely free of charge.

    LAUNCH YOUR COURSE - Determine the time and location, get people signed up, print the workbooks, throw out some snacks and there you go — you’re up and running. Some churches start off by running one course at a time. Others roll o

  • We’re all about options! That’s why we offer two pricing models, monthly subscriptions and by-the-seat. Monthly subscriptions are based off the size of your church and by-the-seat is available in various size packages. This allows churches to roll STS into their specific church budget, host as many courses as they would like, and access all our content. Plus, our team can work with you on setting up a structure that doesn’t cost the church anything. Just ask us how!

    Check out our pricing breakdown below.

    Remember, our Integrations Team is on standby to help you successfully provide courses for your staff and congregation. If you would like additional support or have questions, please email team@sharethestruggle.org or text (760) 307-4055.

What You Can Expect

Zero Risk Pricing

Check out our flexible pricing options, plus churches get free unlimited access for 21 days.

Free 21-Day Trial

No-Obligation & 100% Risk-Free

We believe this will change the lives of your congregation so strongly that we offer a money-back guarantee. Our goal is to equip your church with mental/emotional health support at little to no cost for you.

Prefer a subscription pricing model, or want to purchase more than 100 seats, reach out nik@sharethestruggle.org

STAFF & LEADER TRAINING VIDEOS

STAFF & LEADER TRAINING VIDEOS

Training Videos

Care Certification and training on topics of struggle to equip your staff and leaders.

  • Here‘s the thing: you can lead anything without training, but that doesn‘t mean you‘re leading well. Leading well means you have the knowledge, bandwidth, and calling to provide the needed resources without draining yourself or your team.

    Being Share the Struggle certified means you‘re coming in with an increased skillset that will allow you to provide appropriate support in crucial situations. It means you will be knowledgeable in the basics of helping people through struggles like suicidal ideation, eating disorders, grief, anxiety, trauma and more. It means you‘re confident and capable of making an eternal impact by meeting people in their emotional and mental health needs. Our goal is that every leader is STS Certified and fully equipped to meet the world‘s emotional and mental health needs.

    *STS Certification is not a replacement for counseling and doesn‘t not make you a mental health professional. It‘s a tool for ministry leaders to be better equipped and to know when it’s appropriate to direct your congregation to professional help.

  • We’ve brought together leading psychological and Christian experts to provide you and your team with the knowledge needed when dealing with someone’s emotional and mental health. Perfect for individual, small group or conference-style training sessions, the STS Care Certification and training is laid out in an easy-to-follow format with videos and an accompanying workbook and can be taken at any pace. We recommend your team work through the content together so you’re able to discuss and apply the training directly to your church or organization.

    Interested in having a Share the Struggle speaker lead your staff in an in-person full day training conference? Contact us at support@sharethestruggle.org.

  • 100% free for all our subscribers and seat purchasers - that’s how much we believe in what we have to offer!

What You Can Expect

Taught by: Matthias Barker, Cathy Loerzel, Benji Horning

Moving Through Trauma

  • Experience  freedom in the present by making sense of past wounds.  

  • Get to the root of your deepest struggles and untangle your complex emotions. 

  • Learn practical tools to get unstuck, stay grounded, and re-engage the things that matter most

  • Skills to move towards deeper connection with people.

  • Create space for the Presence of the Holy Spirit and the love of God to comfort you.

8 Lessons

Workbook Included

Taught by: Caroline Leaf, Matthias Barker, Ben Zobrist, Rebekah Lyons, Ryan Miller, Curtis Zackery, Benji Horning

  • Learn tools to know how to handle many different types of anxiety in the moment. 

  • Develop a framework for managing the feelings of anxiety

  • Get to the root causes of your anxiety to fully heal

  • Deepen the quality of your relationships with God, yourself, and others

Freedom From Anxiety Course

8 Lessons

Workbook Included

Taught By: Ryan Miller, Benj Horning, Matthias Barker, Cathy Loerzel

  • Allow the Love of God to go from your head to your heart

  • Heal from your past to walk in freedom, vulnerability, and belonging

  • Deepen the quality of your relationships

  • Find your truest self and uncover your calling

Shame

8 Lessons

Workbook Included

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Freedom From Pornography

Taught By: Dr. Caroline Leaf, Matthias Barker, Ryan Miller, Emily Randal, Chloe Molina

Understand the neurological battle and how Porn takes you captive

  • Get to the root causes of your battle with Porn to fully heal

  • Experience freedom from shame  

  • Deepen your relationship with God and others.

8 Lessons

Workbook Included

Taught By: Monique Zackery, Annie Miller, Curtis Zackery, Ryan Miller

Miscarriage

  • Experience the comfort of God in the middle of your grief

  • Shed any shame or blame by understanding the nature of miscarriage

  • Hear from other women and couples who have experienced this loss

  • Honor your loved one by allowing yourself to grieve well

8 Lessons

Workbook Included

Taught By: Jen Horning, Benji Horning

  • Experience the comfort of God in the middle of your grief

  • Honor your loved one by allowing yourself to grieve well

  • Deepen the quality of your relationships as you honor your lost loved one

Loss of a Loved One

8 Lessons

Workbook Included

Taught By: Ryan Miller

Our main course on how to help struggling people will walk you through how to:

  • Listen and empathize in a deep healing way

  • Explore the underlying root systems of their struggle

  • Share in their struggle and appropriately share your story as well

  • Support them on the journey towards healing

Helping Helpers

8 Lessons

Workbook Included

Taught By: Cathy Loerzel

As a helper, it is imperative to do the work to engage your own story, heartache, and struggle in order to truly empathize and attune to someone else. This section will help you lean into your own story in order to lean further into someone else’s struggle. 

Understand attunement, containment, and rupture and repair.

Story Work

8 Lessons

Workbook Included

Taught By: Matthias Barker

  • Understand why someone feels anxious

  • Learn how to help someone lower their stress response

  • Help them discover the roots of their struggle

Anxiety

8 Lessons

Workbook Included

Taught By: Mathhias Barker

Freedom from porn

  • Understand how Porn is used as a tool to tend to wounds

  • Understand how to spot what is motivating what leads them to porn

  • Understand attachment and identity formation that animated porn usage

  • Learn tools to help in grace and truth

  • Help for spouses whose partner is struggling with porn

8 Lessons

Workbook Included

Taught By: Cathy Loerzel

  • Develop proper boundaries for your care

  • Understand your capacity and competency of care

  • Know how to spot "hypo" and "hyper" arousal

  • Learn the caring posture of Jesus

Trauma

8 Lessons

Workbook Included

Taught By: Benji Horning

  • Tools for deep listening in the midst of grief

  • How to give long-lasting care 

  • Develop skills to love in each stage of loss

  • How to be an empathetic presence for the one grieving 

  • Learn the things to avoid saying

Loss of a Loved One

8 Lessons

Workbook Included

Don’t take our word for it. See what students are saying

  • “I’m Only about 25 minutes in and already have teared up because I feel so seen and understood - really cool”

    — Brooke D

  • “It transformed me in knowing where my emotions and trauma comes from”

    — Kelly W.

  • “Thank you Share the Struggle - you helped me understand my anxiety, equipped me with tangible ways to manage it, and it gave me a brand new perspective”

    — Betsy Keppler

  • “Theres been a real and honest friendship and connection with people who were strangers just weeks ago”

    — Kyle C.

  • “Share the Struggle met me right where I was at, normalized it, and gave me the tools to both understand it and fight it…or rather, let it go of it”

    — Nick Bonner

  • “These courses gave me a new way to understand anxiety. It taught me about the science behind anxiety, the different ways it can show up. It helped me see more of God and his truth in the midst of anxiety.”

    — Lauren A.

  • “It helped me to know, Biblically speaking How to trust God with my hardships”

    — Lindsay M